Improve Yourself 6: Erase Confusion & Set Higher Goals

This continues our series on improving your self to get the biggest raises & best promotions

Ben lost his job as a sales executive two years ago. He struggled to know who he was without a job. When people asked what he did for a living, he responded “I’m between jobs” rather than “I manage sales teams to increase sales and improve client relations.” We helped him to regain his professional identity as a sales manager. Once he knew, he found a great job as a sales manager within 5 weeks.

Confusion May Prevent Progress

We conclude our analysis of Dieter F. Uchtdorf’s speech You Can Do It Now! He said

“One of the…methods to prevent us from progressing is to confuse us about who we really are and what we really desire.

We want to spend time with our children, but we also want to engage in our favorite manly hobbies. We want to lose weight, but we also want to enjoy the foods we crave. We want to become Christ-like, but we also want to give the guy who cuts us off in traffic a piece of our mind.

Focus on Higher Purposes to Succeed

He continues

“Another method…to discourage us from rising up is to make us see the [good and helpful] as things that have been forced upon us. I suppose it is human nature to resist anything that does not appear to be our own idea in the first place.

If we see healthy eating and exercise as something only our doctor expects of us, we will likely fail. If we see these choices as who we are and who we want to become, we have a greater chance of staying the course and succeeding.”

“When our attention is mainly focused on our daily successes or failures, we may lose our way, wander, and fall. Keeping our sights on higher goals will help us become better sons and brothers, kinder fathers, and more loving husbands,” [including better jobs and careers.]

Monday we will share some lessons from Timothy Clark on how to lead more effectively

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